My daughter has jet black hair and a lot of it. Some kids at school (and one parent!!!) had made a comment about her mustache so I said the decision was hers if she wanted to wax it or not which she said she did. I know that is young but as we all know kids can be mean and why should she be singled out if it can be prevented. She is extremely pretty (not just from a mothers point of view LOL!!), well adjusted, straight A student, involved in all kinds of extra school activities. Well she will be eleven in May and wants her eyebrows waxed. I am not sure about this one, any feedback would be appreciated. ThanksEyebrow waxing for an elevan year old?
if itll stop the teasing and she wants it, then go ahead with it.Eyebrow waxing for an elevan year old?
I have my daughters eyebrows waxed because they are very thick, and she is 10. There is nothing wrong with this at all.
She is going to be teased, you need to get that waxed for her.
I wouldn't do it. Bleech the mustache. Its weird for a kid to have it waxed!
if u think it's okay go ahead with what she wants
try it
see how it works
you dont know if it will get worse if you havent tried right??
good luck =]
well i think you should do it. if you don't she'll probably feel self conscious and excluded...children often dont talk about these things directly....ask her how she feels about herself. If she's fine with everything then let her be, if not as a mother, do what is best to help her out.
I agree on the bleaching. waxing is painful in that area. bleaching is the way to go for mustaches and young girls.
She had a comment made to her and her feelings are hurt, is that right? And you want to prevent this 'mean' behavior and keep her from being singled out, huh? Well, unless it is excessive, as in - happening every day all the time, and is truly disrupting her entire life, then what is the big deal here? This is LIFE. She can't have someone around to prevent every little discomfort she may feel along the way to growing up. Far worse has happened to people, and many of them have gone on to very successful and productive lives. My opinion only, but I think she needs to face the reality that life is not always a pretty place for people, and feelings do get hurt along the way. But, she needs to pick herself back, brush off, and move forward. This is how she will learn to deal with life, and do it successfully.
And, kids are kids. There will always be the 'meanies.' And the same goes for being an adult. There are 'mean' adults too. Let her deal with this on her own. From what you described, she is NOT being tormented about this - only a comment was made about it. No big deal. That is just how it is, and she needs to learn how to deal with it herself - on her own. People who grow up in a totally sheltered, and protected environment don't fare well as adults in most cases.
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